Relationship dilemma
 

I’m currently in a bit of a relationship situation right now, so I’ve met and getting to know 2 women that has the potential to turn into something serious (AKA marriage) I’m just really having a hard time deciding which one to pick.

Here is their profile:

Woman 1

Race: Hispanic (Mixed with Chinese)

Age: 31

Relationship status: Still married (She currently in the middle of a divorce)

Legal status: U.S citizen

Kids: 1 (Son, 10 years old)

Occupation: Customer Service Rep (previous a middle school teacher)

Education: Bachelors in Education (Also currently in nursing school)

Personality: Extroverted, into social media, she was once a music video dancer in her early 20’s for rappers such as T.I, Usher, and 50 Cent. Extremely outgoing.




Woman 2

Race: Black (Haitian ancestry)

Age: 34

Relationship status: single

Legal status: U.S citizen

Kids: 0

Occupation: R.N

Education: A.A in nursing (currently pursuing her Bachelors in Nursing)

Personality: Introverted, very reserved, not into social media, a homebody

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

I guess depends on your taste

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

And whether you want to deal with children

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

Her divorce drama and the kid are my main concerns...

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

do they know your status?

who ever accepts/understands your status best is your best pick.

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

Pick Woman #2 my dude! You don't want baby daddy problems, like it or not the child's father will always be in the kids and ex wife life, not saying that it'll be impossible to maintain that relationship but it won't be easy. Just make it easy on yourself but at the end of the day you have to ask yourself who you see yourself with in the long run.

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ahh, the luggage... everyone brings luggage into a relationship.How much luggage are you willing to accept? But also, what is your luggage? And, which one is willing to accept your luggage too?

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You also have to think about that you won't be her first priority, the kid will ALWAYS be her #1 priority, which is very understandable!

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

First of all, the nature of this question and the criteria you post is laughable. You going to let the idiots on this site help sway you into getting deeper into a relationship? Have you seen the idiotic things people on this site post? Most of the morons on here can't get laid, let alone maintain a relationship. The fact you are willing to take their advice on this is very entertaining.

Also... why hasn't anyone asked the most obvious question...
How are you so deep into two relationships at the same time to the point where you are already contemplating either of them leading to marriage? You've been dating them at the same time?

Also... how about choosing the one you LOVE?

Also... It's not just you picking the one you go with. She also has to pick you when the time comes. It's a two-way street. Think about that for a sec.


/realadvice

Re: Relationship dilemma
 

F**k Love and F**k you too!