Gf's family expects me to pay them $15k
 

For her hand in marriage. It is their tradition to sell their daughters in marriage. My gf actually believes this and expects me to pay them if i want to ever marry her. I told her that i am a modern America man and want no part in this human trafficking. She said we may not end up together then. Am i wrong?

Re: Gf's family expects me to pay them $15k
 

Is she a USC?

Also, wrong section.

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Fuck, sorry. Posted here by mistake. Yeah she's usc.

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Wrong section but I don't think this is true love if your gf expects this lol.

Re: Gf's family expects me to pay them $15k
 

If her parents for the wedding and ring that’s actually a decent deal.

Re: Gf's family expects me to pay them $15k
 

Work out a deal, you pay them 15k after they pay for the wedding and she files AOS for you.

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She won't agree to sign a prenup

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Actually you're not that far off man, my wive's family wanted me to basically slob on their balls for their daughter's hand, and I just can't fake shit like that...so I told them than I wanted to marry her, long story short, they didn't show up to our wedding, because they didn't think I asked appropriately, and they just felt like any other guest. Of course my girl was upset, but think about it, you're marrying her, not them, so at the end of the day is about whatever you guys want, rather than what her parents want. I guess back to your point, I wouldn't pay them penny, they just want to take advantage of you, and your situation (whatever that is). I'd suggest asking your girl why do you have to pay? I wouldn't be far off by saying this...but it seems that your girl is brainwashed by her parents, trust me I've been through this. Ask her to pay your parents for you then, if that's the case. See what she says. Say your parents want $20k. Put her in your shoes.

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Run. Fast. Very. Fast.

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Carnivore's drama is now breaking news lol.