Does Anybody here blame there stupid parents?
 

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Re: Does Anybody here blame there stupid parents?
 

LIFE IS NOT FAIR FOR ANYONE.

Instead of comparing yourself to others get off your ass and start taking control of your life. Anger and depression come from indecision, you talk about other people having a good life, what have you done to do the same? Being undocumented has nothing to do with your problems, it's all a matter of attitude and I can cite people in our situation who have gone to lead successful lives. Put your emotions aside and use reason to develop plans of action to overcome your present problems, establish goals, be productive at all possible times while you are still young. The good things in life are actually hard to get and require our utmost persistence and discipline, so if you think that success comes easily you are in for shitloads of disappointment in life. Anyone who tells you otherwise has been really lucky or was raised to be a winner.

If your plan is to remain in the US you have two choices, get married or adopt a skilled trade that will pay very good money regardless of your legal status and wait for a reform or the DREAM act to pass in congress. If you want to have a prestigious job as an illegal alien you are SOL.

If you don't have clearly defined goals along with their dates of completion you are basically wasting your time. Sit down and think how you are going to become "rich" based on the stuff that you like to do and how you are going to invest the money you'll be making.

You are too old to be blaming your parents, let them be. You are no longer in a position to make demands, the moment you became an adult you became responsible for your own self. The more you work on your own stuff, the more you'll come to understand that you are in control of your life, and the more mature you'll become.

Do yourself a favor and buy this book, it will help you get those values not commonly instilled in lax or dysfunctional families.

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I could not agree more with you. Instead of falling into self pity let's get our heads up and keep going. If anything this whole situation will make us stronger and more thankful for anything we achieve. I'm a dreamer and a human being that's something no nation can give me or take away.

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Biggest steaming pile of bullshit ever. Get a prestigious job without any documentation, might elaborating, and no fuck your book.

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HAHAHAHA! Here, *have a hug*, life must be really tough for you :(

Re: Does Anybody here blame there stupid parents?
 

nah.....not really stupid, I mean they know the difference between there and their

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tl;dr

;) lol


Yeah. my mother was mad ignorant. She had the opportunity to legalize and she shrugged it off because she assumed I would want to return to her one day. ASSUMED my ass!! I wonder if she would have liked it if she was in my shoes. Ohhh.. yes darling, now that you know several languages, finished H.S with an advanced diploma and got accepted into college, guess what? You're screwed! Mwahahahahahaaa!!!!

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Whoa, that sucks big time.:shock:

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Complaining gets you no where just saying, and blaming your parents ain't solving anything.
However, running up to your local church burning and inverse cross while wearing a head of a goat will defiantly get you some bad ass points.

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i have asked my mom why she brought me here. She said bc of more opportunities and education, however she did say she was unprepared and there was stuff she coud have done to make it easier, but she did not know.