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jaws 05-02-2018 12:17 AM

Parents....
 
This might have been asked before but I want new /current opinions on this Question.

Are any of you bitter/ angry at your parents for bringing you here?


I go back and forth between anger and gratefulness. I am grateful for the opportunity to have a better life than I possibly would have in my country. I'm grateful for my parents and their sacrifices. But I'm bitter as hell sometimes. Especially when my siblings get everything easier than I do, even though I worked 3x harder. Even the simplest of tasks like getting a ID card made was an ordeal. It's like the real 'favor' was done for my siblings. I'm not getting anything without stress, torture, and pain.

I'm so fucking frustrated with this demon inside me.

EMejia 05-02-2018 12:21 AM

Re: Parents....
 
Yes I am starting to get pissed at them for not coming over here 6 months prior to me being born. But No they had to wait until I was 6 fucking months to come over here. What a bunch of bullshit. But this is the hand we were delt and we have to make the best of it. I always try not to let it get to me but since your bringing it up, I’ll let it out.

unthinkable 05-02-2018 12:23 AM

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Nope, quite the contrary. I am VERY grateful to my parents for bringing me here. I was able to learn one of the most useful languages on the planet (English), attend a top engineering school (MIT) on a full-scholarship, land a high paying 6 figure job, bought a kick-ass property, and about to become a citizen via military program.

Next step is for me to sponsor my parents and spoil them to the best of my abilities!

unthinkable 05-02-2018 12:24 AM

Re: Parents....
 
Your life is how YOU make it. Only losers make excuses.

versailles 05-02-2018 12:26 AM

Re: Parents....
 
no because i'm not an ungrateful brat.

jaws 05-02-2018 12:30 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by unthinkable (Post 703603)
Your life is how YOU make it. Only losers make excuses.

Please don't even fucking start with me. I'm asking nicely , because even you had to feel like this at some point. If you didn't well kudos to fucking you. No one gives as damn.

I'm actually my parents' most useful child. But if I do one little thing wrong I'm the worst person in the world and I get all the cursing in the book thrown at me. I'm bitter as hell right now because I'm doing the FUCKING BEST I FUCKING CAN AND THEY DON'T FUCKING SEEM TO CARE!!!

unthinkable 05-02-2018 12:32 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by jaws (Post 703607)
Please don't even fucking start with me. I'm asking nicely , because even you had to feel like this at some point. If you didn't well kudos to fucking you. No one gives as damn.

I'm actually my parents' most useful child. But if I do one little thing wrong I'm the worst person in the world and I get all the cursing in the book thrown at me. I'm bitter as hell right now because I'm doing the FUCKING BEST I FUCKING CAN AND THEY DON'T FUCKING SEEM TO CARE!!!

Trust me, they do care. Parents tend to love their kids unconditionally. Just be patient with them.

unthinkable 05-02-2018 12:36 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by jaws (Post 703607)
Please don't even fucking start with me. I'm asking nicely , because even you had to feel like this at some point. If you didn't well kudos to fucking you. No one gives as damn.

I'm actually my parents' most useful child. But if I do one little thing wrong I'm the worst person in the world and I get all the cursing in the book thrown at me. I'm bitter as hell right now because I'm doing the FUCKING BEST I FUCKING CAN AND THEY DON'T FUCKING SEEM TO CARE!!!

You are a good carry. Keep up the good work! Even though parents aren't always good at showing it but they really appreciate everything you do for them and your siblings. After you become mega-successful, you can look back on our rough pasts and cherish all your accomplishments because they become that much sweeter.

unthinkable 05-02-2018 12:38 AM

Re: Parents....
 
Trust me, I can really relate to this topic because I used to feel the same way myself.

jaws 05-02-2018 12:41 AM

Re: Parents....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by versailles (Post 703605)
no because i'm not an ungrateful brat.


Again, don't fucking start with me please. I'm doing my best to be grateful but that's fucking hard when I'm the one constantly supporting my parents at all levels and they completely insult me when I make a mistake. No major action happens in my home without me, but if GOD FORBID something goes wrong or I don't want to do a simple task, I get cursed at.


SO AGAIN, HOW AM I TO BE GRATEFUL WHEN I'M BEING CURSED AT??!!!


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