After a while, I know we all get past the point where "Don't worry, everything will be ok" just doesn't cut it anymore, and that's totally understandable. You just have to remind yourself that you're doing the best you can in the circumstances you find yourself in, and that's what matters the most. Don't beat yourself up, b/c it's not your fault that the opportunity to be better was taken away from you. All you can do now is keep on truckin' really. It sounds really cheesy, and stupid, but there are no good alternatives. In the meantime, remember that we're all going through the same thing.