Bro I feel your pain when I was in high school I struggled with that too my first 3 years of high school my friends had no idea about my situation then senior year came up and at first I lied said I wasn't sure but you know what man if they are your friends it doesn't even matter you open the game up with them, but make sure they are your friends. Everyone supported me, funny story some of my guy friends offered gay marriage haha but I had to reject that, wouldn't look too well plus I am not that desperate but anyways man. I am same situation as you but I am going to a community college, search around man.

Some community colleges don't ask for a social security, you can get get in those, you won't get any financial aid or anything but if you can work one job and take a few classes for the moment while the law is to come out you will be better off than dropping out bro so good luck and don't be embarrassed about your situation man you are deff not the only one

Best of wishes to ya
~BrazilianPrince