bn1... if you write one more post that merely suggests someone getting married, whether there's money involved or not, for the sole purpose of getting a green card, you will be banned. The immigration courts can figure out a fraud marriage. You don't get married to someone just to "try it out" and get a "divorce like all the normal people" especially if you're doing it just to get a green card. An immigration judge can find that suspicious and further investigate your marriage. No matter what you think a "real" marriage is, what you have posted time and time again is against forum rules.

I'm closing this thread because it obviously went way off topic.