Oh wow, ok... I did not meant to offend anyone. I was just trying to make someone realize something... if anyone feels like I was negative on my previous comment...well I can't control how anyone take things. I honestly tried to help, because I don't honestly see how you can help someone by feeling that you need to show pity to them, or empathy, why not give them ideas of things to do. It was probably wrong to use the word "bitching"... but at that moment I had no other way to put it. AND I never said I had never "b itched" about stuff, it would be stupid for me to do so when you can find my posts lol.

One more thing, there's a difference between being positive and being realistic. If you don't see a connection between this and my post on this thread, well that just proves you fail to see my point (instead of of concentrating on the word "b itching")