Its definitely been the worst thing for me..I haven't lost anyone close to me (Thankfully!) But this "situation" holds me back from achieving all the great things life has to offer..Which in turns stresses/depresses me..And being either of those is no healthy way to live.. I used to feel like there was little I could do..So It was the worst thing that I could be put through..Because unlike let's say, death, which is a natural, yet unfortunate occurrence..It does heal with time..But those of us who remain undocumented, time isn't really healing anything..

Rather time continues to have us miss out on "milestones" as we try and figure out how to make a better life for ourselves..
You feel me?