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Originally Posted by lostpath
I though I was the only one with problems dating I feel horrible when it comes to meting women I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone. I have been in very uncomfortable situations when women have shown affection for me I always start to think of ways to turn them down, and it kills me every time. In High School there was this girl I was in love with and I never told her and as far as I know she was the only one that I have had feelings for. The other day this girl was hitting on me and it really made me sad to think that I had to walk away again. If only I had a car and a job I would go out there and get a girlfriend but life sucks and I'm always alone. Both my sister have boyfriends and my older sister got marry and she is now legal and my younger sister might be getting marry soon and I just don't see that happening with me I can't bring myself to get close to someone in the position that I'm in keep in mind that I'm 22 and I've never had a relationship I've been here for 12 years and from what I can see nothing is going to change in the near future. I have high hopes that the Dream Act will pass soon but I don't know when it's going to pass.
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I can relate. I'm 20 and I've never been in a relationship either. Mostly because of this whole immigration issue that we have upon us but my mentality has changed though. I think as long as we have personality(like juang said) and character along with having means to express ourselves, we do have that chance to be with someone. I think the car, the money, the clothes etc...doesn't make a difference as long as you meet a person who isn't materialistic. The almighty dollar can only go so high and with this economy, who knows in which direction it may go? I don't think a independent, respectful, educated, healthy, practical person would like to know how much is in ones wallet but what stories, intellect, imagination, spirit, and values have in them. For me, I'd like to give it a go. But due to the area of where I live, $ is seen as a standard in order to be seen as a eligible partner. =/ Don't get me wrong though, if the opportunity comes, I'm going for it. =)
In short, you never know until you try. You know what they say about assumptions right? =P