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Originally Posted by qingshu
cars? money?
geez at that age all you need is what Juang said... confidence.
girls aren't very serious and is just looking for a fun time.
but if you're into nice, quieter girls they might be more serious in relationships and will not consider just a confident dude with no real material.
Afterall, when girls become more mature they would want a real man. A real man creates an empire for himself and doesn't just holler at women while driving his mom's car.
Develop a real skill. Skill to pick up women is not a real skill and won't count for shit in 10 years. With real skills, rest will follow.
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Confidence can only get you so far sometimes. Let's say you live in SC were driving is a necessity and parents don't let you drive their cars. You pretty much will get dumped if you need to have mom/dad take you on dates. It doesn't really matter how nice the girl is. It's pretty normal to think an adult should drive and work/study and it's very difficult to get to meet someone and get far enough to trust them and tell them about your situation. And let's say you're the one driving and get pulled over without her knowing your situation. You're almost positively going to get dumped
With that said you've got to find a way to find someone. maybe you can study and hang around in campus until you know each other well enough who knows. but dating can be so difficult
I was venting the other day in the chat room because this is really getting to me. With the exception of one hispanic girl I didn't like (and she was actually a citizen), I'm 18 and I've never had someone who really cares for me
I can't wait till this is all over and I can put my situation behind me and find someone who I make happy. I'm not a very picky guy either, but it's really heart breaking when theres no one special in your life, heck no one you could possibly even dream about without crashing. I just end up realizing all the ways i can get dumped
