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Originally Posted by qingshu
2. they are not really nice girls. u went to the wrong school. reality check: money matters. In this age the rich are mostly self-made. That means they had the skill and means to be rich and that alone has a lot of implied confidence and backbone.
3. I think ur in denial. or ur standards are just low. just sayin the truth  also look at the poster above u. Fairy tale time is over my friend. Work hard and be somebody. You can flirt the world but in the eye of a man you're still a nobody. |
2. I didn't go to the wrong school. I have to admit that to some girls money does matter, however, would you like to be with a girl who is with you just because you're rich? I know I wouldn't, but again, i have higher standards than most guys; I go for looks, brains, and a good heart. Just think about what you're saying...and more importantly, look at the way you look at life.
If to you being rich is the reason why someone is good with girls, you have the wrong idea about dating. I seriously hope that you are rich or that one day you'll be rich, that way maybe one day you will have the success I have had.
3. I don't think it is you in denial...I know you're in denial. Get this into your head: Money doesn't matter to a girl if she likes you. If she likes your personality, she is going to like you no matter how much or how little money you have. The same goes for when a girl doesn't like you.
All this "you have to be somebody in the eye of a man before being able to find a good girl" mentality actually says LOTS about you and your insecurities qingshu. Trust me, the last thing a girl wants is a guy with insecurities.
As I've said before, I hope you are rich...or that one day you'll be rich, otherwise you will never be happy or get a girl you like. And even after that, only god knows what kind of girl you will have at the end.
As for me, I'm happy the way I am. I will never be rich. And that's fine because I know I don't need to be rich to be happy or find the kind of girl I like.