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Originally Posted by qingshu
HAHAHA
What kind of personality can a poor person have?
Not ambitious - check.
Not an alphamale - check.
Not willing to better his situation - check.
Not independent - check.
Like I said, there are plenty of other implied attributes thats attached to the new generation rich. I'm not saying that if you're poor there is nobody for you. Of course you will get married in life and you will see bums and trailer drunks with wives.
We're talking higher standards here.
I'm not talking about a girl who cares about money as in a gold digger. Profiling exist in the world and if you're poor, you're likely to get profiled with the attributes I mentioned above. In 10 years, talk is cheap and its what you will be able to provide that makes you a better man than the next.
It is merely the truth and it should be motivation for all men to strive and make his career his primary attraction, not his lips.
Back to topic. RIGHT NOW you can get a girl by being suave because now it is the norm for teens not to be able to provide. But in 10 years things will be different and her expectations of you, your duty as a man will differ from that of teens age.
Welcome to reality.
Append: I see you also mentioned me being rich. I'm not 6 digits rich but I'm above average. Life is a battlefield. If you're going to withdraw to "personality will get me everywhere" then you're going to have a train wreck coming soon. A small success at the honeymoon stages is considered "success" in teens age perhaps. But in a longer run you're going to take a backseat. And guess what? Girls know that too.
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I really hope you never become poor. Because if you do, all your life goes down the toilet. I guess you don't have, and will never have, that kind of personality that attracts women without involving you having to pay for something.
About the check list you made up there, you can always be all that even without being rich. Remember, not to all people money means everything. Some people go for the spiritual stuff instead.