I happen to be gay, so dating is a bit more complicated for me. I need to know if a person is gay before I can even make a move. Having said that, many guys have asked me out, but I usually tell them that I'm not looking for a serious relationship. Maybe it's because I'm afraid they'll find out about my status. It may also be that I just don't want to get attached to just one guy. But my status probably plays a big part in my decision not to get involved with anyone.