Choosing to leave this situation in search for a better life is not declaring defeat. We were all put into situations out of our control and decision making and have had to seize the reins. For many of us, going back to our native country isn't a choice. And for some of us, waiting until we are blue in the face is not much of a choice either. I've been waiting since 2002; I have myself and my family to watch out for. My emotional, mental, and physical health have all taken a big hit from this situation, and my decision to do what is best for me is that. At the same time, I have put my story out there to my former classmates and peers and have asked them to sign petitions and such. I can do both and me choosing to work legally and have political rights does not hurt the movement.