My friend had read a spiritual book that says "no pregnancy is accidental" which basically means that every pregnancy is meant to happen...God's gift kinda thing...whether or not the parents think it is. If you're parents had you at a young age, know that you were God's gift to them and whatever hardship your family is going thru is not your fault. You just have to stick it out and work together as a family. Count your blessings instead. You will ALWAYS be luckier than some people in some ways.