Just know that if join the Army, you'll most likely be shipped off to Afghanistan (or Iraq) within the first year of enlistment.

And if you think having your family blow up on you is tough, try having other things/people blow up all around you.

Anyway, if you provide fake documents, you're not going to get very far. They'll do a background check and find out the truth. That girl that is fighting to get her citizenship used someone else's identity, which is why she was able to get in. She was "lucky."

I know you must be going through a tough time, but lying to the government and attempting to join the military is NOT the solution. Good luck. I hope things get better for you.