Call some relatives back home and ask them how they are doing, they'll probably tell you the same old, boring story, "the economy sucks and everything just keeps getting more expensive", then ask them if they would ever move to the US and they'll probably say they enjoy their lives over there despite everything that's going on. Moral of the story, you are going to have setbacks everywhere you go. You and your family made a huge sacrifice by moving to the US, but guess what? You are now an adult and you are in charge of life now. If you don't want to get married to get a ss# then what are you waiting for? You'd better be studying or making money to move elsewhere, otherwise you are just wasting your time.
Take a risk, you are already taking one by being here anyway. Don't wait for the people at the top who look down upon us (second-class citizen hybrid) to make the life changing decisions for you because it might take too long. The American representatives have their own priorities, we are at the bottom of their list, and I don't hate them for this because I accept the fact that I am not even supposed to be here and the whole country has spoken about it just like it did today. You may not agree with the actions of the government, but nevertheless you have still chosen to remain in America because you support the general ideologies that make this country unique and attractive. Be angry at yourself for not being proactive, but not at this country and its people because this is where you want to be and you have no right to be a hypocrite. Make your mind up.
Stay dynamic and open to change, and let those who want to keep fighting doing so. Just remember that those with the stronger beliefs, when faced with the facts take a much harder hit. Success, whatever your own definition is, isn't guaranteed anywhere and you have to fight for it. Do whatever is within your grasp to accomplish your goals as long as you are not putting the lives of others in danger. The system screws us over and we screw with it because it has flaws. Right now there's someone out marrying somebody for a green card, someone climbing the fence, someone going back to their country, someone sobbing because of the outcome of today, etc... There's this shitty overused cliche about flipping a coin and knowing exactly what you find yourself wishing for before the coin even hits the ground, and it's true, in the back of our mind we know what needs to be done. There's no space for fear nor shame because of your situation, you are a human being with needs and wants first and then you are whatever nationality.