I might not be from a third world country but that wasn't the point that I was trying to get across, the fact is I was raised in this country, I love it and it's people. The UK is not a bad country true but why should I have to live my life in a place that I barely remember? I am in love with an American man and I gave up my family to stay with him and to remain in this country, I may not get to see my family for many years if ever. I realize that I have it a lot easier than some but at the end of the day I want the same thing that many do, to be an American, everyone who wants that opportunity, who truly wants it should be allowed to do so. So does it really matter where you came from? If my family had stayed in the UK I am sure I would be a happy citizen there, but they didn't and I grew up in America, not by choice but I am glad that I did it is a wonderful country and I am proud to be a part of it. It may not be a "real" problem to you, but heartbreak is one of the biggest problems to me and I know I am not the only person to make these sacrifices. It doesn't matter where you are from, what matters is where you are. Peace and best wishes to you.