i told my fiance and she is supportive at times, her family used to be undocumented but now theyre all citizens and forgot where they came from.....i love her but man oh man can it get rough.....her having to drive, me making little money and at times she has told me to quit going to school and get another job lol but she always takes it back its a sticky situation i have a son with her and i love them both to pieces but if i knew it would be as difficult as this being undocumented and trying to have a family i would just wait its stressful and for lack of a better word...depressing ..... i have told 2 of my past girlfriends i was undocumented and they all took it well and to this day when i see them they wish me luck ! so guys tell ur girls after a month or so , just find out where they stand on the issue cuz the last thing u want is a girl telling ur business to everyone!