I was dating a guy last semester, and we weren't exactly serious but we were moving in that direction. We were talking one day and he asked me why I was so guarded. He asked me "I think you're fragile. You don't want anyone to see it, but I do. Something is constantly breaking you heart... What is it? You can trust me." and damn, I felt so bad. I wanted to be honest with him. But I couldn't do it. I wouldn't open up to someone I unless I was really serious with them and felt like they wouldn't think I was after them for a GC