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Originally Posted by Justin2014
OMGGGGG I am in the same boat. I feel oppressed from both sides. I can't go after my dreams of being successful because of the status barrier and I can't even go out on dates or be in relationship because I am in closet. Its so frustrating. My parents are pressuring me to get married and I think I am going to so I can atleast get rid of one problem..which is to gain status. I am the oldest out of 6 kids, so there is a huge pressure on my shoulder and coming out would make my parents look bad in the community so I won't be doing that. UGHHHHH.
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I hope you will be honest with the person you marry. I can't stand closeted men or women who lie to their spouses about who they are and then go playing about with other people. It's not fair to the other person; to try to manipulate them emotionally to gain lawful status and seem "normal." Appearances can be faked, but how you feel inside cannot. In my opinion, it's better to make a plan to be free than be caged in for the pleasure of others. It gets tiring to play someone else all the time.