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Originally Posted by Happygolucky
I hope you will be honest with the person you marry. I can't stand closeted men or women who lie to their spouses about who they are and then go playing about with other people. It's not fair to the other person; to try to manipulate them emotionally to gain lawful status and seem "normal." Appearances can be faked, but how you feel inside cannot. In my opinion, it's better to make a plan to be free than be caged in for the pleasure of others. It gets tiring to play someone else all the time.
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I know what you mean!! I have been fighting with my parents about marriage for 2 years now. They wont listen. No one in my household is legal so they are putting so much pressure on me to be their savior. I am the only one that is graduated and I am 24 so they think I need to get settled and marry and support financially and get them their greencard. Top of that coming out is not so easy in a conservative household. Only if they knew what they are asking me, I just can't do. Sigh.
I think my mom knows bc I get scared every time she mentions marriage, so I think she knows. But at same time she is not willing to accept it and thinks nothing of it. She still ask me to marry. WTF!
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