Originally Posted by Happygolucky

I hope you will be honest with the person you marry. I can't stand closeted men or women who lie to their spouses about who they are and then go playing about with other people. It's not fair to the other person; to try to manipulate them emotionally to gain lawful status and seem "normal." Appearances can be faked, but how you feel inside cannot. In my opinion, it's better to make a plan to be free than be caged in for the pleasure of others. It gets tiring to play someone else all the time.