The worst thing we can do is to suffer over this. Even getting a RFE is better than not qualifying because you came into the US 2 weeks after you turned 16.

There are people who are in way worst situations than ours. Whenever you feel frustrated just think about the things you have and not the stuff you don't have and be thankful.

There are two ways to face life:

As a victim

or

In a courageous manner

One will take you to anxiety and depression...guess which one it is.