At the end of the day if is going to be someone that will hold it against you they don't deserve you. Try to talk to her about it and explain how your situation happened. If they fail to understand it is better to walk away.
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Sent 10/19->WAC accepted 10/24
I-797 arrived 10/27
Biometrics letter arrived 10/29 Biometrics done 11/20
EAD: February 7, 2013 SSN:Already Have
DL:Gonna take a month or two..haha.never bothered to learn..too scurred