For one the second you stop being afraid of woman is the second you get them all attracted to you . Girls did not evolved to be in charge and above a man so when they are they have no idea how to handle that power other then seeing you as weak and unattractive that's why the ugly jerks get the hottest chicks . Honestly realize girls aren't nothing to be all hung up on then you will see them as the flawed individuals they really are . Once you see them as people you can relate more and have better real chances with them .

So just forget about that girl plenty of other girls just as hot out there .