Yeah, I don't think there will be too many common people in this forum.

A lot of us are probably getting ready to back to the double life once again that we tried or maybe have not fully left behind in our fully undocumented pre-DACA years.

OP, your relationship makes me think of just that.

Thought about talking it out with them see if they might be interested in an open relationship. It has happened before and would save you having to split yourself all the time and risk of explosive drama.