That is a dangerous thing when you don't have DACA and can potentially give an evil person ammo to destroy you. More than 10 years ago, I met a Canadian who seemed nice enough and while talking, she actually figured out my situation...we had some drinks in us so perhaps my guards weren't as up but it turned out that this Canadian girl was a hardcore conservative and very anti-illegal because unlike us, **SHE** had to spend FIVE THOUSAND DOLLARS on lawyer fees and she couldn't stand "fence jumpers".

She was nice to me and don't think she would have reported me but I really hated that she knew that about me...later on she became a citizen and married another right winger and just turned pure evil with her views and I was able to slowly put her out of my life but it's not a good idea to just out yourself.

There have been a few occasions that I made the choice to tell people once I knew they were not bad people. Even then, I'm at the age where women want a stable, established guy and not a work in progress. In my 20's, I had the cover of school and being young and could afford to be heading in the right direction and not established.

That's not to say I couldn't be in a relationship but I still have standards.