I'm not trying to be a thread cop, it's just from past experience this forum gets very hysterical and superstitious towards anything immigration related and thus unable to be of any solid use to you. Furthermore, as the immigration related experiences of most people here are limited to seeing a CBP agent from a distance at the airport or the border, they're not likely to provide you with any practical advice. Remember: the vast majority of people here are young, unmarried, and illegal!