Lora hold off for a bit. If what you've told us is true don't tell him until he comes around on this issue. Are you an EWI or visa overstay? If you are a visa overstay take your time but if you're an EWI, he has to know before you get married. I know it's hard to hide things from the ones you love but you have to think about your family and what would happen if to some reason you guys broke up.