I'm in this same boat, I'm now 21, and my aunt petitioned for my mom and us in 1999, but on the bright side, if you do start a process of legalization, you don't have to go back to your origin country for the 10 year ban or anything, because you are grandfathered under the 245i,
like getting married or something ( :
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