so there it is guys, words from a girl, we have to muster up enough balls, to ask a girl out, even if its just a casual thing, we still have to make the effort, and if we get rejected, we can't feel bad. and no disrespect to women, but u gotta think like mr. west on this one. "there's a thousand you's and only one of me" meaning, there are other fish in the sea. this thread reminds me of that movie hitch lol this thread has actually given me a new idea for a thread, thanks juang