LGBT Dreamer Community: Who are you? - Page 2

Omg, I had straight friends Offer and I am like abou that... And some are clueless and say you guys can marry legally now. You don't need to worry. And I am like uh... No. But where are you from? Muslim parents will never accept this. I am paranoid as I type this. And my picture is up there. I should probably delete my picture in case my sisters get on here and read this. Then I am kind of screwed. Lol pretty scary actually.

LMAO!! HAHAHAHAH I am from Pakistan. You? You can't see your face, so I guess its all good. lol
My uncle saw a post online about me being gay looking for lesbian online, he called my dad and told him. SMDH. Then my mom was like why you put it online. She thinks it was some joke. They are in such denial. My dad didn't talk to me for two days because of that. They still don't think I am gay and want me married. So I am on the verge of giving up and letting them marry me to whomever. I am just tired of fighting.

Haha. I am Moroccan. And wow, that's really scary. I would've said the same thing. I feel for you. I was arranged with some guy last year and I kind of fell into a depression over it. I was about to go through with it and see the good in it, but I just couldnt. I said no and i refused. They made my life hell forbabfew weeks because I said no. But I am glad I didn't go through with it. Because I would've been really miserable. You shouldn't let them do that to you. If you want to be with a guy, be with a guy. Besides, marriage shouldnt be forced. My sister was in an arranged marriage an it ended up being abusive. Now she's depressed and going through a divorce. It will just be a mess for you. Don't go through that. When you get your EAD, you will be able to be more independent and get out of the whole situation. That's what I'm planning on.

I guess non-practicing Catholic parents are easier to deal with than Muslim parents.

I feel lucky. My mom is so ridiculously open minded. When, I came out to her, she just gave me a hug, and told me she loved me. In that moment, I understood her love was unconditional for me. It was weird at first, she would ask me LGBTQ questions, and then asked me whether her shoes matched. LMAO! I'm gay, but I am not a fashion queen. It still totally cracks me up, but I don't mind giving my uninformed opinion. A few months ago was the first time I ever spoke to her about a guy I liked. And, she was cheering me on, telling me if I wanted to meet him she would take me, but that the guy was too unattractive for me. I suppose all moms have high standards.

I feel bad for you guys. I wish you could have at least one parent who would not give a damn about what people think and accept you for who you are. I think all parents should love their children for who they are and not what they want them to be.

You really are lucky. Your mom sounds really cool. My parents would probably stone me and throw me out. My mom kind of knows because she found so many of my Lgbt items. And she got mad one day and threw them out. I was hurt by it. But at least she didn't throw me out. I think parents should love unconditionally too. Sigh.. Oh well.

Oh wow!! That sucks for your sister. =( I know marriage shouldn't be forced but they just don't get it. I feel devastated inside. Oh well. Life will go on!


Fashion Queen!! LOL You ARE lucky! Who doesn't want parents that are accepting of who you are. I am just hanging by the thread and, going with the flow. SIGH

well you and I could've married eachother if we lived closer. Haha.

LOL I know righttttttt!!!

Lol yes. Sigh.. I actually tried looking for that once.

DUDE there are so manyyy gay guys out there seeking lesbians. There are like 20 gays to 1 lesbian. lol. It will be easy for you to find one, I am sure. It seems like there are no muslim lesbians..smh.