Originally Posted by prettyjolie

wow, that's horrible! I hope your friend's wife filed for him.

Yeah, it's really not fair because it's like they don't consider being away from your family or the one you love is enough hardship. You have to have extreme hardship like serious health problems and if you're lucky enough to be healthy, then it's very difficult.
I'm afraid of having my husband file for me because if I get denied, I won't be able to be with my husband, as he's in the military for at least 5 more years.

But with all the sham marriages, it's only going to get tougher.