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Originally Posted by Lunafiv
so you guys still kept in touch??
I was with this guy for years, we would text/talk every single day. It's not that I just broke up with someone, I also lost one of my best friends...
I guess I just need people to tell me that "it gets better." 
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We did for the first few months...she had met someone else while visiting California and hadn't told me but I knew the real reason so part of it was me wanting to get satisfaction that she wouldn't think she got away with it. I would have dreams of telling her I knew and soon it was like the screaming sheep in the Silence of the Lambs. So one day when she was feeling guilty about it and called me to see what I was up to, I told her I knew and silenced the lambs. Later on, she moved to cali for good so that really helped forget about her.
I think it's best to just not talk anymore and move on. I've never understood the whole staying friends with exes thing. I've learned to be civil with the more non-serious exes but you can't be friends with an ex. It's un-natural.
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Late 40's Dreamer (Holy Fucking shit I'm almost 50 and still dealing with this), aged out of original DACA and didn't have a chance to apply for extended DACA after Republicans killed it on the vine.