Originally Posted by Dream becomes Reality

I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting Lunafiv. I remember how heartbroken I was when my first relationship ended. I had just started college and although we were in a relationship, we were both college students so we weren't at the point of being ''serious,'' but we were a couple and spent a lot of time together. I was very heartbroken when things ended suddenly. In all honesty, he wasn't very kind to me but I really wanted to be with someone, that I overlooked a lot of red flags and went along. Fast forward a couple of years later, he was down and out and practically begged me to take him back...and I did against my better judgement. Guess what? Once he got back on his feet he did the same thing to me again, and then I remembered why the relationship ended the first time. My situation is a bit atypical because people that break up tend to at least be cordial to their exes which I was willing to do, but for whatever reason he was always hostile to me whenever we weren't together. After trying desperately to salvage the ''relationship,'' I finally decided to move on and meet new people. I happen to think that if both parties are willing and they have a healthy form of communication then both people can at least stay friends to some extent if the relationship doesn't work out. If your friendship isn't accepted by them, then it's their loss, some other guy will think that you're the total package that he's been looking for .

Break-ups are tough as you go through so many emotions (crying, anger, sadness) and feelings and even physical pain as you just don't feel like yourself sometimes, I've experienced it and it feels terrible. It's good to talk things out with others that'll listen, good empathetic people that want the best for you. It really hurts, but it'll get better with time. Keep your head up!