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Originally Posted by Lunafiv
He hasn't said that he likes her, but from what I've heard she is not ugly they have things in common, why not? Let's be rational. Just because you're in a relationship or you still have feelings for your ex does not mean there's no way you can like someone else. It hurts, but it happens. Am I the only one who thinks this? When I was in a relationship there were guys in my classes that I found very attractive, does that make me a bad person?
I know what you mean by being his backup, that's horrible if that's the case. I do not want that. How can I know if I am his backup? I feel like he's really hurt. Last time we saw each other, he was having a hard time just like me (he even cried) but he said we should just be friends that us getting married would only make us miserable.
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I am not sure what you mean by liking someone when you are in a relationship. It is unacceptable to have feelings for your ex. You have to completely forget your ex before moving on. Otherwise, it is not fair for both, yourself or your partner. You can find others attractive but does it mean you want to start a relationship with them?
I am not really sure about the history about you guys but seems he wants to try it with someone else.
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