Originally Posted by vivace

All he said was that you're in a "world of hurt" if you believe you'll be approved as fast as that kid with a one-week DACA timeline. He was referring to the possible mental/emotional hurt that comes along with setting unrealistic expectations. Let's all be adults and call a spade a spade: he very neutrally warned you that your process will likely take much longer than a week, and you somehow took that as a personal attack.

You are helping other dreamers by sharing what you submitted, whether or not you hired a lawyer, what your timeline is, answering their questions, bouncing around ideas, and eventually what questions were asked during your interview and what pieces of evidence you brought.

You are not helping fellow dreamers by accusing another fellow dreamer of wishing you the worst or telling them you're wrong when you haven't even been proven right.