Originally Posted by lemonbillie

you should be fine. just have all the evidence necessary, like everyone else. at first glance, i can see why that may look "suspicious," but after you saying you have a long-standing relationship with her - it is fine.

plus, every couple has things they want to "take care of" first for their own personal reasons. you becoming legalized can be one of those things so you can go on your honeymoon, help finance a place to live, and so on.

good luck!