Nope! Folks were whispering to my mom but I put my foot down there. I just meant, I set a deadline for myself. If something didn't give in 5yrs, whether it be a real marriage or a law passed. I'd go elsewhere. I can make it in any first world country, I was going to Canada legally (lots of family there) and then apply legally to re-enter US. I'm young, so in 10yrs (wait time for re-entry) I'd still be young.