Resenting would solve this issue. Foreverblessed, make sure you try resenting. If that fails, try crying and questioning your existence because those two things work too. At one time, I used to log in and check the lounges and news to see bright ladies and gents speak about best fitting solutions for this nation. It's amazing how things fall apart.

By the way, you said resenting for a while. What makes you think she didn't do that? Do you think that a normal reaction of a person when these things happen is not resenting? Also, how long are you suppose to resent your mom? Everyone here now thinks they are entitled to be Americans. Which is great but can you sincerely say, that you had any chance of being an American on their own without their parents? They brought you guys in illegally. Okay, and you resent that. That's fine but do you even try to understand what coming here illegally entails?

Man, this is why I hate ignorant immigrants. They make me look bad.