Serious Relationships... - Page 6

I'm doing well, I hope you're being good and not giving anyone a hard time

Awww...don't worry though, you'll get over him, the pain eventually leaves just stay strong. You can always talk to us here.

Trust me, when the time's right it'll happen. I was in my first relationship by 18 and it wasn't all that, some relationships are actually more of a headache. It's sometimes better to meet quality people a little later than starting early and dating several losers before meeting a quality person.

Well said!

So, how are you Lunafiv? Fastest way to get over your ex is to get a rebound. But not always the best way.

I don't know I'm confused, frustrated. We still love each other (I think he still loves me?). But he's met someone. We've talked. I told him I was sorry about everything I had done (I was very careful because I didn't want to sound like I was begging him to take me back) We talked, and he said he was happy to hear everything I had to say, but said he still needed time to process everything I said. This girl likes him, so I'm gonna feel really bad this weekend because he might hang out with her. I don't even want to think about it.

I've thought about a rebound, but I don't really like anybody besides him.

The last thing I want is to sound pathetic and for him to feel sorry for me. Any advice?

I feel the more you try to get over him the more you won't as you are indirectly thinking about him which is making you miss him.

What am I supposed to do, we still talk on the phone/text. Something tells me I should stop contacting him. But, I feel like if he's able to understand how sorry I am about my mistakes, etc, I might get another chance...

I do not want to look desperate but I think I'm starting to, I hate it, I hate it. And then when I start thinking about this weekend and how he might hang out with this girl (even some of his friends are saying he should be with her), I just go crazy. This is not healthy!!!

I wish I knew I was gonna get approved that would help me me a great deal. Of course I would still feel this pain, but I would have something to focus on. This is all so bad, and I can't talk about this with anybody, only here.

I suggest to not contact him anymore... What you are doing is detrimental to your sanity. Obviously, he is rebounding another girl already?

It's hard not to think about him. But talking/texting him is not doing you any good, it just incites more pain and thoughts.

Focus on something else, get a new hobby, etc.... But whatever you do, do not do a rebound. Rebounds do not last and it is not fair to the other person, since you are not ready for a new relationship.

Let time heal.

Seems like you're obsessed with this guy.

Maybe? I don't know, after all we were together for almost 4 years, what can you expect....

But I feel like I've said what I needed to do, and if that doesn't mean anything to him. Then there's nothing else I can do, that's when I have to move on completely, and even if he still wants to be friends I won't be able to do that.