Serious Relationships... - Page 5

I don't mind that!! I'm sure I can learn many good things from you guys!

well, Flying left so there is no one to call all the boys to the backyard

WTH?? Why are you always calling me out. The backyard? lmao. smh.

I second all the posters saying it takes time.

Time heals...

I was in my first serious relationship for 2 and a half years. My first love too. Although my ex never said it when we broke up, I think my situation back then about my status was one of the reasons for the break up.

It hurt like hell. We had plans to marry. We would talk everyday, and at the start of the relationship through the middle we would be on the phone for about 12-14 hours a day, just talking and what not.

Nothing hurts like hell when both of you are on the same page and you feel you've have found "the one".

At first, it feels like you've been stabbed. You'd cry and think what went wrong. You would think about it everyday. Then it fades a little. You meet new people. And you move on slowly. But you will never forget. Until this day, at times a catch myself thinking of my ex. It's been about 2 years. But I have learned that although it was tough, my ex did not love me enough to go through with marrying me.

So think about this, if you think you found "the one" and something happened and your partner ended the relationship because of "papers" then your partner did not love you unconditionally.

Unconditional love is what it takes.

Stay strong, take it slowly, you'll find someone else.

A piece of advice is to cut everything off from your ex. No phone calls, texts, nothing.

P.S. I am currently in a relationship and my past relationship has made my new relationship even better. You live and you learn.

I actually don't believe there's such thing as "the one." I seriously think there are looots of people you can be happy with.

When you think of your ex, do you think of how happy/miserable you were with him?
The other day I found an ex on Facebook, I really liked him. I'm not sure if I was in love with him, but when we broke up I did feel really bad (not like right now though) I remember crying when I saw him with a new girlfriend. It took me months to get over him, but I was adolescent. When I saw his pictures I didn't really feel anything except that I still liked him physically. He still looks handsome

Flying is also a conceited poster who often searchers for her name on this site jk

Hahahaha. lmao. I just wanted to know what the break up was about and the first thing I see is you talking about me!.

Piano can't help it, you're always on his mind.

I wake up everyday thinking of SK18, i mean flying yeah flying

It's always the happy thoughts/ moments that pop up first. But when you think about it more, there were red flags and things that my ex did that was unbecoming.

That my dear... is just lust... Love is something else.

If you find someone that no matter what would love you, and you in turn love him the same way, then that's the relationship you want to cherish and be in.