hey guys,
thanks for all those who shared their stories.
except tylor29, i didnt appreciate the sarcasm, but i get your point.
i go through one of these episodes every now and then, esp. when someone mentions "... look back on your life and have no regrets", i start to have panic attacks and go into this deep depression that makes my eyes misty. i was going through one of those that day.
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Originally Posted by IamAman
All I can do is tell you about my own story. My first relationship was when I was 25 as well though I had met people before that. If you think about it, this is the perfect age for you to meet someone because you still have the cover of college to hide your secret. You have all the tools so the rest is your attitude and confidence all of which are under your control. Even if you're not going to find a LTR, just go out with someone and have fun - you can define fine lol.
Even as a Dreamer, 25 was one of the best periods of my life. Maybe at 46, I'll look back at now and think now was the best, but ask yourself this - When you're old and on your death bed, what would you give to relive just today as a young person.
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its ok for guys to start dating at 25. most girls that are 25 are either in a stable relationship or married. the older the girl, the harder it is to find the right guy. once you hit 30, its either u settle or stay single for longgggg periods of times.
when i'm old and dying, i'm scared that i'll regret my youth, how i wasted it. it terrifies me that i'll regret not living life to the fullest, how i just sort of lived life waiting for something that probably won't happen. its these thoughts that makes me uneasy and depressed.
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Originally Posted by yaystarcraft
At least you're on your way on getting your Masters! Leave the country once you graduate. A good life awaits you after you leave... I'm doing well in my home country, and just got a new job at a large international hotel chain. I guess I'll be traveling in a few years to any country except America. But that's alright  You'll be scared at first when you land in your homeland. But trust me, it will get better as long as you try hard at finding the right kinds of job. |
i'm so happy for you! can i ask what country your in and what's the situation like there?