Every single time you post on here it’s to kill morale or to gloat that we are too stupid to marry someone or get green cards some other way. We get that you already married someone and are all set, so why not just leave this board? It’s none of your business anymore. And for people like me, with multiple illegal entries before the age of 10 to which I obviously had no fucking say or couldn’t stop, marriage is unfortunately not an option. So yes, for some of us this is it or nothing at all.