How did you come about to telling your BF/GF. Future Wife/Future Husband.

That you were currently Illegal or Out of Status.
How did you bring it up. Was it hard how did he or She React when you told her or him the news.

Did you tell him or her if you thought that something might come that might cause a problem like your status.

How did you get around this with that special someone

hmm I wish I could help with this one.. I ussually tell before we get together

Before telling the person you love make sure you can trust that person.
For me it was very difficult to talk to anyone about my situation but I felt that my bf deserved to know. After one year and a half of going out I decided to tell him. I told him that I had a secret and I didn't know how to tell him. We kept talking and he just made it easy for me to tell him. His support was so incredible. He got involved with my situation going to the march in washinton speaking to different lawyers. He Informs me about any news he finds out about the DA. If the person really loves you thats just going to bring you guys closer.
Best of luck!!!

I told both my exs before I went out with them that I come with a heck of a load of baggage, and that it's a secret. If they're interested enough it wouldn't matter. Then I told them about 8-12 months later. They were both very supportive, and it actually brought us closer together. Oh btw they didn't happen at the same time xD

Well she noticed how interested I was in the issue, and apparently I had been mentioning it a lot. She asked if I am undocumented. I told her the truth. She asked questions I answered them all, she is very very supportive. Its been about 4-5 months since she found out.

I don't trust any one.