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How to deal with a psychotic ex

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02-13-2018, 10:13 PM
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So my ex wants to come back to me and I keep telling her that I moved on from her I keep telling her no and shel tells me that if I don't take her back she will kill herself I swear she needs serious help how do I deal with this
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02-13-2018, 10:23 PM
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She has bpd (borderline personality disorder)

Stay as far away from her as possible

Get a restraining order if necessary
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02-13-2018, 10:24 PM
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Crazy people scare the crap out of me. I made the mistake of having um, relations with someone while being very clear it wasn't serious but she was off her meds and would just go nuts. Like seriously nuts and cut herself and shit. She also knew about my status so that was even scarier so my fear was that one night she would kill herself and then I would be found liable for not calling the police. Fortunately, she got help and one magic pill a day keeps her in balance and she's actually very pleasant. I don't ever touch her though. She did offer to marry me a few times to which I refused for various reasons but no green card is worth that kind of crazy.

Anyway, all I can say is good luck...try to encourage her to get help. Restraining orders work too since you have DACA.
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02-13-2018, 10:31 PM
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Congrats. You stuck not only your dick, but your whole arm in crazy. From experience, if she knows where you live, knows your friends, where you work, etc. You are in for a turbulent ride. Hold steady and don't cave. She will try to guilt trip you. She might even tell you she's pregnant with your kid all of a sudden - this will most likely be a lie. Good luck and let this be a lesson learned - if you make it alive.

Chicks with BPD, as my boy mentioned above, are no joke. Learn to pick out the warning signs. Let me know if you want me to tell you what to look out for.

Again, Good luck.
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02-13-2018, 10:51 PM
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That bitch is psychotic she won't leave me alone and she is threatening to kill herself
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That bitch is psychotic she won't leave me alone and she is threatening to kill herself
At least she isn't threatening you, which is nice
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That bitch is psychotic she won't leave me alone and she is threatening to kill herself
Let her
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