Christian Dating for Undocumented Students

So... I sorta gave up dating thinking it wasn't meant to be...
I am in nursing school, no time, no money, no prospects, and plus the amount of stress you would deal with in a relationship/ illegal immigrant stress... I thought it would be better to wait till I am legal or not illegal to look for relationship anyway.... BUT!!! with that being said...

There is this amazing girl I met through church event. Beautiful inside and out and the whole shebang, super nice, only year younger than me... rock climbs, runs trails, likes my jeep, I mean the entire package. I feel like I found a precious pearl. Now I am kinda like "what?" where did this come from. What am I suppose to do? I am gonna have to pray a lot about this but she's too good to be true and too good to pass on. Help me out here brothers, give me some advice.

LMAO just hit it and quit it dude.

Go for it. Do you want to find yourself asking 'what if' two years from now? There is risks and there is work but if there wasn't any involved and if we always go for the safe bets life would not be interesting...

If you date someone you don't tell her about your immigration status immediately. You tell her just if you are getting very serious and then she wouldn't even mind that you are an illegal immigrant.

What do you think can happen if you date her? She won't call ICE. Are you serious? come on! enjoy life, don't limit yourself to things because of your status, just live life to the fullest.

Having a beautiful girlfriend will make you less stressed about everything that's going on in your daily life.

I'm suprised to hear that some undocumented people treat themselves like they are fugitive on the FBI most wanted list.

Just go out with her and stop with all the excuses.

u said it urself, too good to be true, to good to pass on, so obviously you cant pass on her. give it a shot, whats the worst thing that could happen?

That's great that you found someone you can see yourself with. Don't let your status keep you from relationships you can, and maybe should experience. Get to know her well, and if she doesn't seem ideal..

Why don't you get to know her and ask her out? If the feeling is mutual, you won't be sorry. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Doesn't hurt to try. Then tell her about your status when you guys get serious and go from there.

just go for it. life is ALL about risks and having a good girl next to you really makes it easier to get through all our hardships and relieves stress.

just give me her number and I'll bang her if you feel you're not worth it. I know I deserve more, but she wouldn't look bad in my "trophy wall" either

juang if you dont have nothing nice to say dont say it at all.


ger, just go for it dude. youre a great guy! and if shes what you are looking for just ask her out! you got nothing to lose! do it!