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help ex threatening me - Page 3

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#21
09-26-2009, 11:02 PM
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She shouldn't listen to those guys.get the idea out of your head. I can't stand girls who marry guys/date them then lie about how they beat them just to get a visa.are you guys serious? People like that makes me sick and I hope they get caught and get punish severely!!!
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#22
09-27-2009, 05:49 AM
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You and that handsome Chivas are making the U-visa application process seem like a walk in the park. As someone with a current application pending for the last 9 months, I'd like to call bullshit on your posts by letting you know that it's NOT as easy as you think it is. Filing a false report is the fastest way of putting you on ICE's shit list because it is a CRIME. As if being here illegally wasn't bad enough. Jesus fucking christ. What terrible advice.

Also, even you filed an application and had police reports corroborating that he's harassing you, it probably won't be enough for a U-visa. The standard of proof is higher than harassment and all types of abuse has to be documented with police reports / medical records / etc. Additionally, when you apply for a U-visa, you definitely get biometrics taken and they take your photo before the application process even starts moving along. So file an application with wishy washy proof and it'll get denied. And now USCIS will have your fingerprints, your photo, your address, and the names of anyone associated with your application. What makes you think they can't hand that over to ICE? Just a heads up.



yo hippie thats a cool story & I'ma let you finish, but you srsly need to calm down turbo. my advice was intended only as a last-ditch effort if ICE did happen to show up at her door with a deportation order. I'm glad to know you're not only a snitch online but in person too. Atleast ur lameness has some congruency between your e-persona and ur (and I use this term loosely *pun intended*) "life".


owwww!!



now only if we could say the same about both sides of your crooked face.
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#23
09-27-2009, 06:30 AM
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I highly recommend what the above poseter said. Although, filing false charges which you cannot prove is cubersome and a crime on its own so be very careful.

If you do google, DHS has been issuing U category visas especially to women who have been abused by their companions. If you have any signs of abuse on you that you can prove i would recommend documenting them as a last case scenerio when everythign else is exhausted. I wouldnt recommend just showing up to INS to claim a U visa.


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You and that douchebag Chivas are making the U-visa application process seem like a walk in the park. As someone with a current application pending for the last 9 months, I'd like to call bullshit on your posts by letting you know that it's NOT as easy as you think it is. Filing a false report is the fastest way of putting you on ICE's shit list because it is a CRIME. As if being here illegally wasn't bad enough. Jesus fucking christ. What terrible advice.

Also, even you filed an application and had police reports corroborating that he's harassing you, it probably won't be enough for a U-visa. The standard of proof is higher than harassment and all types of abuse has to be documented with police reports / medical records / etc. Additionally, when you apply for a U-visa, you definitely get biometrics taken and they take your photo before the application process even starts moving along. So file an application with wishy washy proof and it'll get denied. And now USCIS will have your fingerprints, your photo, your address, and the names of anyone associated with your application. What makes you think they can't hand that over to ICE? Just a heads up.

Now, take a chillpill and go read again what I said. I asked her not to just show up at USCIS filing for U -category as its cubersome. I said all abuse should be documented and used only as a last case scenerio should she get caught and have no other option besides deportation left.

I also asked her to pack her bags and move away if she has no family wherever she is staying
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09-29-2009, 09:45 PM
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keep your cool, and if ICE ever shows up at your door just say he sexually abused you but u didn't want to report him because he kept threatening to have you deported. Then you'll qualify for a U-visa and he'll be behind bars. Well only take my advice if you have the heart for it, I know they say "hell hath no fury like a women scorned"
Not to sound wrong but thats a sweet deal... I'd do anything to get some form of legalization.

I think you should never trust anyone. Not to sound like a paranoid person but in reality you can't trust any one. I was in a relationship with a girl that I thought we could make it as far as marriage but I never told her, and she always was curious what I was "hiding," long story short she hates me and is a b**ch. Just imagine what would happen if I told her about my status.
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#25
09-29-2009, 11:08 PM
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This seems like a nightmare situation, dunno what I'd do in your situation.

Here's hoping he doesn't do it =/
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#26
10-02-2009, 03:35 PM
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thanks for all the advice but i am not looking to lie about anything , he is still threatening me and wants everything he ever gave me as a gift back including my dog which i honestly will not let him have thats my baby as stupid as it may sound i will go to court fot that dog.

and deff Lesson learn this is going to stay a secret .
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10-02-2009, 03:58 PM
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Positives about revealing your boyfriend/girlfrien/or just close friends:

-They're going to feel sympathy for you and either help you find a job, or even try to help you adjust your status.


Negatives

-Well, Txgirl's situation.


I suggest that you remain calm and don't try your ex to intimidate you too much, and DuseoUnPoco does have a point.
You gotta have a last ''ditch'' effort, but in the end of the day, it's your life so it's your decision.
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#28
10-03-2009, 04:36 AM
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I'm sorry about your situation, but you need to stay positive and not let the situation overwhelm you with fear and self-pity.

If I may suggest something, please note that this is just my personal opinion, talk to him when he has calmed down a bit and explain to him how much harm his actions would inflict upon you. Surely, if he loved you or still does, he will see that this type of behavior will not ease the hurt and anger he is feeling right now. If he cannot be swayed then you need to take the appropriate measures to protect yourself and you absolutely CANNOT just sit around feeling sorry for yourself and hope it goes away.

I don't know the specifics of your situation so i cannot comment further, but I hope everything turns out well for you. Remember you have rights as a human being that no one can take away from you.
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#29
10-03-2009, 04:54 AM
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you know i came close to telling a good friend once about my situation because when he found out I was going to postpone college, he couldn't understand for the life of his why, I mean I was an honor student to begin with. Finally, I just shrugged my shoulders and said that I was lazy and wasn't really interested in it anymore, which I totally hated saying because it wasn't true at all. Besides, I was afraid that if things would get wrong with our friendship, he would use that information against me and would put me in danger.

Sometimes your best friends become your worst enemies because you trusted them so well. I'm so sorry you're going through this hun, my prayers are with you.
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#30
10-30-2009, 05:05 AM
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If I were you, I would just move. And make sure that he doesn't find out anything else about you. Change all your numbers and try not to use your identity too much.
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